Today I noticed a lady in a wheelchair towing a wagon full of groceries down the sidewalk. Rather than moving right along she was tugging at the wagon, which wasn’t moving. Initially, I passed by, but ultimately I couldn’t continue. She needed help. So, I turned around and trotted toward her. Before getting too close, I called out. She declined my offer, thanked me, and we both moved on. While it was a nice interaction, I’ve continued to contemplate everything that went through my mind in that moment.
She needs help. Is she dangerous? Will she hurt me? Will she think I might hurt her? I don’t want her to feel threatened. I just can’t pass by, I have to help.
I believe I took the right action, but I yearn for a world where that stream of consciousness is unfounded and only the bookends matter – acknowledging a need for help and extending help. I am very grateful for those of you who focus your life and time on the bookends!